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One sided love means: Only person who is in love with the opposite sex but the opposite sex doesn’t know… I guess I am the one ba. I doesn’t really know if she know I like her as I have hint her a lot specially the flower I gave her on Valentines’ day. Next week is White day meaning the guy have to return a gift to the person who gave him on Valentines’ day but now is the guy gave a gift to the girl does the girl have to return the gift to the guy on White day? I hope if it is I wish the present were a kiss or two from her haha… (I must be dreaming, I think I am dreaming this isn’t going to happen to me anyway)
It isn’t really important to me, the most important is that I hope she can reply or message me telling me that she is Ok as I was worry about her since Saturday evening when I “heard” (meaning I chat with her online) that she had a quarrel with her parents on Friday night. I don’t know what to do, I wanted to help but what kind of help I can do? All I can is listen to her trying to comfort her but again she won’t find me even I told her I am willing to listen to her when she feels like telling me.
From her blog I read, her parents were still very strict to her even now she is 20. How strict and strict in where? Well strict in every parcels and letters send to her were opened and read by her parents. Then when going home later is unacceptable even she gave a call to them and telling them she will be late they still won’t accept. I guess to me if she is with a good company as I know that she knows how to diff the good and bad company. She is mature enough to know that so I think her parents it’s time to give her a little more freedom, she is coming to 21 soon in a year time. By now should have more freedom at her age right?
One major problem is that she has a 14 years old brother, which at this time is quite a troublesome age as they will either turn good or bad and will rejects parents so call commands even older brothers or sisters. So you will think what’s the problem, well whenever her little brother had gone into trouble her parents will blame her for it. I think this problems lies on the parents not on her, as they are the one who spoilt him.
Even my little brother also been spoilt by my parents, in my case I have a chat with my parents about the things that they do, which have been a bit over broad. This helps me to get a bit of freedom and the case of my spoilt brother. Well they still very protect my brother through but I told them if they carry on like this he will mix with the bad company, as I know what the bad company do as I do have some friends who are mixing with them but now they aren’t with them anymore. So maybe she can use this to let her parents know her situations and maybe introduce them the friends she is mixing with so that they can understand and give her the freedom she wants. This is what I do in the past, I know I can’t compare with her as she is a girl and I am a guy so there is a different between but why not try it and see whether it works for her or not right? If this can’t really help then I can help her think of another way to prove that she is old enough to take care of herself and do whatever can wants in the good ways of cause like: fall in love or be independence. As for her brother problems, she and her parents have to find a way to do something as it isn’t her problems but is the whole family members problem everyone must be involve in this issue. Even she is a good role model so what her little brother won’t listen then there isn’t a point of blaming her, she has done her part as an older sister but her younger brother doesn’t want to follow or listen, she can’t do anything right?
For me the same, my brother won’t neither listens to my parents nor me so what to do. Well find out who is he mixing with or who ever he is closer to and often seek help. Ask that person to help because sometime there is a need for a third party or person like his close friends or relative to help.
I don’t know if you all know that there is a time where I had a very fierce fight with my brother that I dislocated my right wrist and a fracture ribs where else my brother just have a swollen wrist and a big blue black on his right eye. I tried to hold back the strength I had just not to hurt him too much even through its his wrong and I still will get the blame, still get the injury worst then him where I hold back and get a bit of internal injury like fracture ribs. Every now and then when I take a deep breathe I will pain in my chest and I will get pain in my wrist when I do push ups. Well this is my problem some more it’s quite long time ago the pain now is nothing to me as I got used to it.
But as for her I wish she will soon get back with her parents in good terms again, I don’t want to see her sad outside or in her heart. I don’t care if she like me or not I just want her to be happy everyday whole life long. Guess I’m talking to much as no one will understand unless they themselves had face the problems before….
One sided love means: Only person who is in love with the opposite sex but the opposite sex doesn’t know… I guess I am the one ba. I doesn’t really know if she know I like her as I have hint her a lot specially the flower I gave her on Valentines’ day. Next week is White day meaning the guy have to return a gift to the person who gave him on Valentines’ day but now is the guy gave a gift to the girl does the girl have to return the gift to the guy on White day? I hope if it is I wish the present were a kiss or two from her haha… (I must be dreaming, I think I am dreaming this isn’t going to happen to me anyway)
It isn’t really important to me, the most important is that I hope she can reply or message me telling me that she is Ok as I was worry about her since Saturday evening when I “heard” (meaning I chat with her online) that she had a quarrel with her parents on Friday night. I don’t know what to do, I wanted to help but what kind of help I can do? All I can is listen to her trying to comfort her but again she won’t find me even I told her I am willing to listen to her when she feels like telling me.
From her blog I read, her parents were still very strict to her even now she is 20. How strict and strict in where? Well strict in every parcels and letters send to her were opened and read by her parents. Then when going home later is unacceptable even she gave a call to them and telling them she will be late they still won’t accept. I guess to me if she is with a good company as I know that she knows how to diff the good and bad company. She is mature enough to know that so I think her parents it’s time to give her a little more freedom, she is coming to 21 soon in a year time. By now should have more freedom at her age right?
One major problem is that she has a 14 years old brother, which at this time is quite a troublesome age as they will either turn good or bad and will rejects parents so call commands even older brothers or sisters. So you will think what’s the problem, well whenever her little brother had gone into trouble her parents will blame her for it. I think this problems lies on the parents not on her, as they are the one who spoilt him.
Even my little brother also been spoilt by my parents, in my case I have a chat with my parents about the things that they do, which have been a bit over broad. This helps me to get a bit of freedom and the case of my spoilt brother. Well they still very protect my brother through but I told them if they carry on like this he will mix with the bad company, as I know what the bad company do as I do have some friends who are mixing with them but now they aren’t with them anymore. So maybe she can use this to let her parents know her situations and maybe introduce them the friends she is mixing with so that they can understand and give her the freedom she wants. This is what I do in the past, I know I can’t compare with her as she is a girl and I am a guy so there is a different between but why not try it and see whether it works for her or not right? If this can’t really help then I can help her think of another way to prove that she is old enough to take care of herself and do whatever can wants in the good ways of cause like: fall in love or be independence. As for her brother problems, she and her parents have to find a way to do something as it isn’t her problems but is the whole family members problem everyone must be involve in this issue. Even she is a good role model so what her little brother won’t listen then there isn’t a point of blaming her, she has done her part as an older sister but her younger brother doesn’t want to follow or listen, she can’t do anything right?
For me the same, my brother won’t neither listens to my parents nor me so what to do. Well find out who is he mixing with or who ever he is closer to and often seek help. Ask that person to help because sometime there is a need for a third party or person like his close friends or relative to help.
I don’t know if you all know that there is a time where I had a very fierce fight with my brother that I dislocated my right wrist and a fracture ribs where else my brother just have a swollen wrist and a big blue black on his right eye. I tried to hold back the strength I had just not to hurt him too much even through its his wrong and I still will get the blame, still get the injury worst then him where I hold back and get a bit of internal injury like fracture ribs. Every now and then when I take a deep breathe I will pain in my chest and I will get pain in my wrist when I do push ups. Well this is my problem some more it’s quite long time ago the pain now is nothing to me as I got used to it.
But as for her I wish she will soon get back with her parents in good terms again, I don’t want to see her sad outside or in her heart. I don’t care if she like me or not I just want her to be happy everyday whole life long. Guess I’m talking to much as no one will understand unless they themselves had face the problems before….
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